Author Archives: Mary K. Smith
Conversations with a dear friend- “How were you able to get through John’s death without therapy or meds?”
A few days ago, I had a great conversation with a dear friend of mine. The miles separate us, but we talk almost weekly on the phone and I consider her to be one of my closest friends. We talked … Continue reading
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Why is it that humans are so good at congratulating and suck at consoling?
Some promotions were announced today, which resulted in a number of “Congratulations!” “Well deserved!” and “Couldn’t have happened to a better person!” that rang through the air. Smiles were shared and happiness abounded. That same day, I talked to someone … Continue reading
Lesson in perspective
At work, we were part of a contest for a food bank. Boxes and cans were arranged to make “art.” For several days, I walked by the finished completion and could not for the life of me figure out what … Continue reading
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NIH and the Government Shutdown
Across my news feed in Facebook this article shows-http://baltimore.cbslocal.com/2013/10/03/patients-admitted-to-clinical-trials-losing-hope-as-gov-shutdown-continues/ 8-Year-Old Cancer Patient Among Those Affected By Government Shutdown October 3, 2013 5:35 PM View Comments Reporting Jessica Kartalija BALTIMORE (WJZ) — Every week, hundreds of patients, including children, are admitted to new … Continue reading
Married to widowed
July 20, 2009, I went to bed married. On July 21, 2009, I went to bed a widow. Funny how the span of 24 hours can forever change a life. For those of you with loving spouses give them a … Continue reading
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Ferris Wheel
Driving home, I spotted a ferris wheel at a carnival. It was beautiful against the backdrop of the night sky… bright flashing lights drew attention to the ride. My mind wandered to my last ferris wheel ride… with John… at … Continue reading
Posted in Community Fire Company of Rising Sun, John, Life after John's Death
Tagged carnival, Carry On, ferris wheel, John, Lean on Me
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Morning Conversation
So, kiddo and I are having a morning conversation. We’re talking about the things we like about his school. It’s my turn and I say that I enjoy having free time and getting to hang out with a friend of … Continue reading
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Tagged forever and ever always, John, love, marriage, Nathaniel, pre-school, school
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A firefighter’s tribute
Whether you love it or hate it Facebook is often a great way to connect. Today, a friend tagged me in a post, I clicked it to discover this. along with this text Honoring two friends who will now go … Continue reading
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Tagged Chris Good, EGH, Everyone Goes Home, facebook, fire service, firefighter, John Smith, Keep the Faith, KTF, Remember Fallen Brothers, RFB, Sam Terry
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Out of the Mouths of Babes- Friends
We’re watching a presentation on “Forgotten Fair Hill.” The room is packed. Before I signed up for the presentation, I had checked to make sure kiddo would be welcome and we were cleared, so I signed up. If there is … Continue reading
Grief Quote- Earl Grollman
Grief is not a disorder, a disease or a sign of weakness. It is an emotional, physical and spiritual necessity, the price you pay for love. The only cure for grief is to grieve. – Earl Grollman I stumbled across … Continue reading
Rainbows & Mourning Doves 